The left enjoys calling conservative Christians intolerant. It's very helpful for letting people know who the really tolerant crowd is. The thing is, I don't obsess over homosexuality in the way that the left portrays typical Christians. I honestly don't know many people that do obsess about the topic, to be honest.
I don't agree with gay marriage myself (and neither do
the scriptures), but I don't go over to anyone and tell them that they're living a sinful life. I've had gay co-workers, gay friends, gay teammates. I don't tell them, "Hey! You need to change your
lifestyle or you're going to hell!" And you know what else? I also don't go over to my heterosexual teammates and say, "Hey! You're going to hell for fornicating - and watching pornography!" Seriously people, just because we disagree with something, doesn't mean we're here to try to control your life. No one is trying to take away your humanity (as
@Dattier would put it). If you have a different set of beliefs, that's fine. You live your life, you seek after happiness, and so will I.