If it's who you are, no, it's not a "style." A style is something you choose, and later, might un-choose.
You keep referring to your disagreement with homosexual lifestyles, then claiming not to be judgmental or hateful. It's not a "lifestyle." It's just as much who they are as your heterosexuality is part of who you are. You can't disagree w/ part of a person's very existence and not be judgmental and hateful. Further, when you vote for candidates and policies that limit their rights based on their orientation, it's violence. Oh, sure, it's not a literal punch in the nose, but it's far more damaging.
Your brand of Christianity is ignorant and bears no resemblance to Christ Himself. The Word of God is stagnant in your hands, heart, mind, and soul. You practice idolatry.