Naaaah-----that's not what you said. But I get it.
Before I got into college officiating, I was "that guy, that fan", too. Then after working for 10+ years, understanding the in's and outs---plus having the knowledge of what legal guarding position is, etc---my tune changed.
I watch games much differently than probably anybody on here.
And look, not saying officials aren't inconsistent, miss calls, etc, etc---Of course that happens. Dudes are human after all. Its just not as bad as the common fan thinks.
Always happy to answer any questions.