So when you walk out and see a stranger verbally harassing your wife/gf/daughter you’d just politely ask him to leave?I did watch the video. Verbal altercation has absolutely nothing to do with it, nor does it grant someone the right to inflict physical violence. Like I said, don't want to get shot? Don't go assaulting people. He could have just as easily gotten into the car with his girlfriend and left without doing anything. Crisis averted.
Also, based on your logic, don’t threaten a woman and you won’t get pushed to the ground. Don’t start nothing and there won’t be nothing, right?