First, you left out the particular way it was used. It's not as simple as never mentioning family, period, and you misrepresented that, creating a strawman.
Second, you brought your wife into this. The person you're pretending to be so confused by is/was her teammate. You've received explanations and are still pretending to be confused. I suggested you ask your wife. I suspect she doesn't have a problem w/ her teammate -- my explanation all along -- and that it follows that you can't handle that conversation, so you're taking out your frustrations here. Not at all the same as profaning my family, which bert did. (I notice you didn't quote what he said -- more evidence you lack any integrity or courage.)
Third, I apologized twice and it still wasn't good enough for you. When was the last time you apologized for anything? Did bert ever back off and honor my polite request?