I can't recall visiting a gravesite after the service.Do y'all visit gravesites? We were up in Chapel Hill visiting my cousin and her family this past weekend and on the way home we stopped by my sister's gravesite. Didn't do anything for me except make me hate my brother more. Was really odd to me, why do we do this?
I like to think I'm not cold and don't care, but it's a mix of travel and heartache.
My uncle died a couple of years ago. I didn't attend his service. I came up later and spent the day at his headstone. My grandpa's died before I was born and he married my mom's sister when she was 18 and my mom was 1. Dude was everything to me. I don't handle grief well.
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