No. I'm not "punishing" or rewardig a team, or other kids because of the actions of others.I’ve been around youth sports for a few years. My son has played elite level travel baseball & AAU basketball.
I know more than few teams that I dread playing against because of the other teams parents or coaches. Some of them act like total assholes.
Do you ever let a close play go against a team because of the way their parents or coach acts?
My son used to play with a kid that was VERY emotional. He acted a fool on the pitchers mound. The worse he acted, the smaller the strike zone would get.
I worked a 12U tourney this weekend; actually just Sunday. First two games were great. Parents from one of the winning teams approached me afterward, and said how much they appreciated my hard work, how I interacted with the kids, etc, etc...
Fast forward to the Championship game. We are in the 1st inning. Kid hits a shot down the 1st base line, and I signaled it fair. Right fielder is beside himself...Pitcher throws his arms up. Coach is yelling. No biggie. Next two pitches are close. I call them balls. Pitcher throws his arms up---again. I tell the catcher, "call time, walk out there, and tell him to stop that".
He does....Pitcher apparently didn't listen. Does it again. SO I walk out, and tell him---"Cut that out---Like, now". Coach gets chirpy. I tell him, "Not gonna have that". Blah, blah and balh..We get a close call. GOes against them.....And here we go again. Parents are screaming---"You suck...You are terrible....Etc, etc...Guy behind the backstop says to me---"You are just awful"..So I ask---"Aren't you t he same guy who just an hour ago told me how good I was"?
Crickets.
Anyways.....Another close pitch, pitcher AGAIN flails his arms. OK, dude. I've had enough. SO I raise my voice, very sternly and say---"THAT is enough". Oh, boy. He starts to cry. Here comes the coach. Fans are ready to kill me. Coach says, "C'mon, man. He's only 12". Ok. Why does that matter? I have told him 3 times now, and very professionally , to stop. That didn't work. By this time, those same parents who LOVED me, are now ready to hang me.
Point being-------Its amazing how winning and losing effect parents.
Travel ball parents are awful. SOme of the worst.