"how old are you when you're 14" Old enough to have been taught the correct and respectable way, but too young and arrogant to care. 😝My wife is a second year medical resident. Extremely smart and motivated, got over 90th percentile on her three board exams, etc. etc. etc. She asked me this past weekend “how old are you when you’re 14”? And got mad when I just stared at her for 30 seconds. Sometimes when we are having a conversation I begin to question my own sanity hearing her responses to what I was saying.