If you have to do the Matrix to make that disconnection after the fact... well...Saying that hilldogg is an insufferable **** is not saying that she is an insufferable **** because she is a woman. You are the one assuming that she is an insufferable **** because she is a woman and not that she just happens to be a woman who is also an insufferable ****.
I have no doubt you believe whole-heartedly that hatred of her has nothing to do w/ her gender.