After the Duke and KU gang rapes, I think I'll hold out judgement for a while.
One big difference, at Kansas it happened at the dorm the players stay in and was reported to all media outlets. No player implicated.
This scenario nobody reported and players have been implicated.
I get what you are saying but completely different sets of circumstances.
After the Duke and KU gang rapes, I think I'll hold out judgement for a while.
One big difference, at Kansas it happened at the dorm the players stay in and was reported to all media outlets. No player implicated.
This scenario nobody reported and players have been implicated.
I get what you are saying but completely different sets of circumstances.
After the Duke and KU gang rapes, I think I'll hold out judgement for a while.
If you mean truly subscribing to "innocent until proven guilty" even in the court of public opinion, awesome. If you mean you're essentially opposing the alleged victim, or taking the type of attitude that has traditionally made it harder for rape victims to come forward, not cool.After the Duke and KU gang rapes, I think I'll hold out judgement for a while.
So you're either saying I'm awesome or not cool?If you mean truly subscribing to "innocent until proven guilty" even in the court of public opinion, awesome. If you mean you're essentially opposing the alleged victim, or taking the type of attitude that has traditionally made it harder for rape victims to come forward, not cool.
I'm giving you the opportunity to clarify and elaborate. There could of course be more than the two options I proposed, but they seemed to be the most likely interpretations of what you said. If you meant the former, that's entirely appropriate. If you meant the latter, it's not.So you're either saying I'm awesome or not cool?
Awesome....or not cool of you.
It's pretty obvious what he meant, as soon as someone sees a headline like this they automatically assume guilt. The Duke Lacrosse team was dragged through the mud, season cancelled, etc. And they were 100% innocent.If you mean truly subscribing to "innocent until proven guilty" even in the court of public opinion, awesome. If you mean you're essentially opposing the alleged victim, or taking the type of attitude that has traditionally made it harder for rape victims to come forward, not cool.
Okay, so what does that look like moving forward? Does it mean following the story objectively as it develops or being cynical about her version of it and casting doubt on it at every turn? (He has already eliminated vengeful demands for punishment of the definitely guilty rapists w/o bothering w/ a trial as another reaction.)It's pretty obvious what he meant, as soon as someone sees a headline like this they automatically assume guilt. The Duke Lacrosse team was dragged through the mud, season cancelled, etc. And they were 100% innocent.
I think we should just assume women are lying every time their lips move. Better to play it safe.Okay, so what does that look like moving forward? Does it mean following the story objectively as it develops or being cynical about her version of it and casting doubt on it at every turn? (He has already eliminated vengeful demands for punishment of the definitely guilty rapists w/o bothering w/ a trial as another reaction.)
Ugh. SickI think we should just assume women are lying every time their lips move. Better to play it safe.
Not yet anyway.Ugh. Sick
Alright, fine, haha. Nothing to see here...
In all seriousness the accuser should be treated with the same amount of scrutiny as the accused, at the very least by the authorities. Assuming guilt or discouraging people from going forward with allegations is wrong.Ugh. Sick
Alright, fine, haha. Nothing to see here...
In all seriousness the accuser should be treated with the same amount of scrutiny as the accused, at the very least by the authorities. Assuming guilt or discouraging people from going forward with allegations is wrong.
Sexist.I have no tolerance for any sort of crime against women.
Oh man. Well done.The fact that Duke gang raped MSU on national television right before this happened and is in the clear shows the power K really has.
She probably was.Were they that butthurt?
Just like Louisville?as soon as someone sees a headline like this they automatically assume guilt. The Duke Lacrosse team was dragged through the mud, season cancelled, etc. And they were 100% innocent!
Absolutely.In all seriousness the accuser should be treated with the same amount of scrutiny as the accused, at the very least by the authorities. Assuming guilt or discouraging people from going forward with allegations is wrong.
That KU basketball player dorm is a known cesspool.
Absolutely.
However...
There is a difference between rape cases that end in acquittal and rape accusations that are fake. I suspect that in the vast majority of rapes and rape accusations -- particularly in college environments -- the accused really believe they are innocent and the accusers really believe they were raped. It's the tiny, tiny sliver of the time that women are actually, knowingly lying, and even then, the odds on calling their bluff are terrible.
So as far as determining criminal culpability, we absolutely have to be fair to both sides. As far as demeanor goes, though, it's the safe and compassionate assumption that the alleged victim is at the very least traumatized, whether it was the result of a crime or not, so even while questioning her and remaining objective, she's got to be handled with kids' gloves. It's totally reasonable for the police to ask questions, but when that leads to her reliving it, many of them just can't endure it.