I'd love to see a "gather rule". I have brought it up----and dudes are like, "yeah, yeah.....And well, thats it. I just think once you have beaten your primary defender, have began to gather the balll, that a secondary defender should not be allowed to slide in, and take a charge.Yes, I like the gather rule. Wish that was the rule. I agree it is difficult. I'm not sure what the answer is.
Also---get a 3 second defensive rule. Tht would solve a ton of issues.