it happened a few years ago on RR
i cant remember the posters name that lost his son
he invited everyone to look at the comments that were made on his fan page, it showed who made the comments
a certain poster later on claimed (as they all do) that his account was hacked and he never posted that
he should have been banned from all rivals message boards
the short version of what he said was "if i had a father like you i would kill myself" there was some other stuff
it takes a very low person to make negative comments in that situation
some lines you never cross, no matter what you think of the person