This is pretty wild, and if someone does dismiss the northeast like that it’s pretty evident you’re dealing with some form of ignorance. Which is surprising, given the perception that Kansas has - I’ve never been, but I’m assuming Kansas’ reality is far more complex than the podunk, backwards cornfields 99% of the country pictures.
The Northeast has global cities, Mayberry small towns and suburbia, areas more rural than Kansas, diverse mountain ranges, ocean, beautiful lakes, some of the most conservative parts of the country, some of the most liberal, and some incredibly moderate. There truly is some of whatever you’re looking for somewhere in the northeast.